About me

Born near London. Raised in the Valleys of Wales. I’ve lived in Portsmouth on the sunny South Coast of England for over 20-years.

I’m allergic to fir trees. Love a cup (or an IV) of Earl Grey. And can often be found procrastinating. But when not busy pottering about, I’m at the allotment, on the paddle-board (weather willing), walking the woods and marshes, or being shorter than a sunflower.

From working on a farm to being a nightclub manager – I found my niche in End of Life…

  • Death doula;
  • 6 years arranging funerals and taking care of the deceased;
  • 1 year guiding trainees through their Funeral Service Diplomas;
  • 3 years as chapel attendant and cremation technician.

And then I became a funeral celebrant…

For lots of reasons!

  • I love a good funeral;
  • I love to write;
  • I love life;

But more importantly, I wanted to bring my skills and knowledge together with who I am and continue my work dispelling the taboo of death, one ceremony at a time.

An image of me, Tomos James, a funeral celebrant, standing in front of a tree.

Working with me

Whether you’re looking to hold a funeral or a memorial ceremony for someone who has died, you can expect my understanding, compassion, best, and humour. And guidance:

My area

Based in Portsmouth. My area stretches east from Fareham to Bognor Regis. Taking in Havant, Hayling Island, Emsworth, and Chichester.

With that said, though. I am willing to travel.

My qualifications and associations

I’m a certified funeral celebrant with The Celebrants Collective

I’ve a diploma in funeral arranging and am a qualified cremation technician, and work closely with funeral homes and my old crematorium to keep my knowledge current.

I’m a non-practicing Death Doula and loudly promote their adage of ‘Live well, die well’.

I’ve adopted the Funeral Celebrant Accord, which guides the attributes and development of a celebrant.

I’m a Dementia Friend, helping where I can.


Got a question or want to know more?

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