Funeral Celebrant in Portsmouth

Ceremonies that bid farewell…

Funeral

Held in a crematorium, cemetery chapel, or other venue. Together, we’ll shape something that feels true to them — and supportive to you, and everyone who’s there.

Memorial

Held after a direct cremation, or at any time you choose. A memorial ceremony offers space to gather, remember, reflect, and say farewell together — wherever feels right.

Pre-planned

A calm, practical conversation to capture what matters to you — your tone, music, words, and wishes — so your people aren’t guessing when the time comes.

Working with me

A quick call

Once you reach out — or if a funeral director contacts me — I’ll call you to introduce myself, answer any questions, and book a time to meet you.

Our meeting

We’ll confirm the key details, then spend time on stories and memories. Share as much or as little as you want — and allow around 2 hours.

Writing the ceremony

I’ll pull everything together into a first draft within a week, allowing time for any family tributes too.

We get it right together

You’ll get a copy of the script, and you can add, remove, tweak — anything you need until it feels right.

On the day

I’ll arrive 30 minutes early, support anyone taking part, and guide the ceremony with a steady, reassuring presence.

Contact (included)

You can call, message, or email me — my phone is on silent from 8pm, so anything after that I’ll reply the next day.

Not sure where to start…?

Send me a message — I’ll guide you through the next steps.

Prefer to book a quick call?

Kind words

A few words from families…

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S Wade
21 August 2026
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Tomos was recommended to me by a funeral director and he was brilliant! Professional throughout and added humour to keep the mood light which is exactly what I wanted. Many of my guests commented and said mums service was one of the best they had been to. I found Tomos to be friendly and approachable, and nothing was too much trouble. I would highly recommend Tomos for funeral services
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D Gillane
27 July 2026
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Hi just wanted to say a massive thank you to Tom , you summed up my friend beautifully everybody that attended her funeral said what an excellent service you gave, i would highly recommend you thanks again Debbie and Jordan
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R Collings
4 July 2026
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Personable, gentle, caring delivery of eulogy and management of occasion – would definitely welcome again if opportunity arose. Well received by those gathered for the funeral.
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J F
12 May 2026
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We were so grateful to have Tom as the celebrant for our father’s funeral. He was incredibly compassionate and struck the perfect tone – warm, respectful, and appropriately lighthearted at times, which brought comfort during a sad occasion. He was very responsive throughout the planning process and took the time to write a lovely, personalised eulogy and outline that truly captured our father’s life and spirit. His warm and heartfelt presentation during the service was deeply moving and meaningful to our family. I would definitely recommend him to anyone seeking a caring and skilled celebrant. He helped make a very difficult day feel personal and dignified.
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D Clements
13 April 2026
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Tomos was the celebrant for my mums funeral. He made the process so easy. He was attentive and sincere. Tomos acknowledged everything we said, helped pick out the music etc. The speech he gave was everything we could have asked for and more. Tomos kept in contact the whole time and was always there if we needed to change anything or needed advice. Would highly recommend
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V Groves
26 January 2026
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Tom did not just listen to our requests, he heard them. He noted them & delivered perfectly. His communication was splendid. He had clearly put in the work and related our tales & wishes with aplomb. I would simply say, Tom’s work was outstanding.
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K Goodwin
9 December 2025
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Tomos was a total professional; he steered us through everything we needed to achieve to make our Mum’s funeral seamless and heartwarming. During a distressing time he could answer all our questions, give advice and deliver a beautiful service.
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M Hewson
11 November 2025
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Top man is Tomos. So thoughtful and kind he helped us prepare and the lead the celebration of mums life. Would not hesitate to recommend his services, but in the best possible way hope that our paths do not cross too soon.
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D Richards
11 October 2025
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I can’t thank Tom enough for helping us through a sad, difficult time when saying goodbye to a dear friend who had no living relatives. Another friend, Sue and I felt reassured from the moment we first met with Tom that everything was going to be ok and we would be able to give our friend the send off that she deserved. Tom was friendly, helpful and couldn’t do enough for us from the start. We felt comfortable and at ease with him and laughed and cried with him at our first meeting. He helped with suggestions for the service and really captured the essence of our friend really well. Tom made sure on several occasions by emails and calls that we were happy with everything and that we were ok. On the day of the funeral I was very nervous but knowing Tom would be there with us helped get us through. It was such a lovely service, exceptionally written and conducted. We couldn’t have asked for more. We’ve received lovely comments from our friends and family about it all. Thank you so much, I will certainly be recommending your services to others. Donna x
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Mark
8 October 2025
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Tom is a superb celebrant. His diligence in the preparation was above and beyond, meeting for research on a Sunday. Excellent communication throughout. He is a consummate professional and made the service a joyous celebration of the deceased.
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