Types of ceremonies
Funeral
A ceremony for the day itself…
Held in a crematorium, cemetery chapel, or other venue. Together, we’ll shape something that feels true to them — and supportive to you, and everyone who’s there.
Memorial
A farewell without constraints…
Held after a direct cremation, or at any time you choose. At home, in a pub, a hall, outdoors — wherever fits — with space for stories, music, and togetherness.
Pre-planned
Putting your wishes in writing…
A calm, practical conversation to capture what matters to you — your tone, music, words, and wishes — so your people aren’t guessing when the time comes.
Funeral
A funeral ceremony is usually held on the day itself, in a crematorium, cemetery chapel, or other venue.
It’s a moment to come together, to acknowledge the death, and to say goodbye in the presence of others.
Some families want something familiar and traditional. Others want something more personal.
Most find themselves somewhere in between.
There’s no correct balance to strike — only what feels appropriate for you, and for the person who has died.
You don’t need to arrive with the right words, the right music, or a clear idea of how it should feel.
We’ll take it one step at a time.
A funeral ceremony might include:
- music that mattered to them
- shared memories or readings
- moments of quiet reflection
- religious elements, if wanted
- space for laughter, tears, or both
Nothing is required. Nothing is ruled out.
My role as a funeral celebrant is to listen, shape, and hold the ceremony — creating something that brings comfort, honours a life, and reflects the person who has died, truthfully and gently.
Memorial
A memorial ceremony is held separately from the funeral itself — often after a direct cremation, or at a time that feels right for those gathering.
It can take place days, weeks, or even months later.
At home, in a hall, outdoors, in a favourite spot — wherever suits the people coming together.
For some families, a memorial gives you breathing room: more time to reflect, more choice of place, and more flexibility in how the ceremony feels.
That means there’s no fixed format, and no expectation to follow tradition unless you want to.
A memorial ceremony might include:
- stories and memories shared openly
- music chosen without time pressure
- personal rituals or symbols
- a relaxed, informal atmosphere
- space to connect, reflect, and be together
It can be quiet or celebratory. Structured or simple. Planned carefully or kept light-touch.
My role is to help you shape a memorial that feels natural and unforced — creating a space where people can remember, connect, and say goodbye in their own way.
Pre-planned
A pre-planned ceremony is a calm, practical conversation held in advance — giving you the chance to put your wishes in writing, in your own time.
Some people do this because they like things organised, while others want to spare their family difficult decisions later on.
Many do it for both reasons.
We’ll talk through what matters to you — your tone, your words, your music, and any elements you’d want included or avoided.
Nothing needs to be final, and nothing is set in stone.
A pre-planning conversation might cover:
- the kind of ceremony you’d want
- music, readings, or themes that matter to you
- how formal or informal it should feel
- any religious or non-religious elements
- things you feel strongly about — either way
The outcome is a clear, written record of your wishes, held safely and shared only with the people you choose.
Ultimately, my role is to guide the conversation, help you articulate what matters, and make sure your wishes are captured clearly — so when the time comes, your people aren’t left guessing.
What happens next
You don’t need to have everything worked out before getting in touch.
Many people reach out with questions, half-formed thoughts, or simply to talk things through.
Whether you’re arranging something now, planning ahead, or just exploring what’s possible, we can take it at your pace.
Get in touch
Call, message, or email — whichever feels easiest.
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My phone is on silent after 8pm — anything after that, I’ll reply the next day.
You don’t need to rush any of this.
People arrive at these decisions in their own time, and in their own way.
If today isn’t the day, that’s okay.
You’re welcome to come back to this when it feels right.